EDITOR’S NOTE: The subsequent content is a reproduction of Dr. Randy Cale’s column submitted for Christmas in 2022.
On the eve of Christmas, throughout the dwelling
Not a creature stirred, not even a mouse, foretelling.
Seated comfortably on the sofa, Mom and Dad
With all the gifts finally placed under the tree they had.
Both engrossed in their phones, checking with care
For any surprises from Santa’s list to bear.
The tree brimming, displaying abundance galore
With credit stretched to include all the ‘extras’ in store!
Convinced that all was set and nothing to amend
They both sighed, “Wasn’t this fun?” with a sarcastic blend.
‘What does Christmas truly entail?’ they pondered in dismay
Seemingly trapped in a cycle of stress and dismay.
Awaiting the New Year for a moment of respite
Yearning for a change, a shift in insight.
Contemplating amidst a tearful embrace
Wishing silently for more magic to grace.
Concealing their deepest apprehensions and fears
Doubting the essence of all the festive cheers.
As they gazed into the night, pondering their choices
Seeking solace amidst their inner voices.
Then, in a moment of epiphany and delight
Mom proposed a transformative shift that night.
‘What if, in this very moment, we redefine
From material presents to a presence divine?
Showering love and warmth upon all in our sight
Embracing the true essence of this night.’
‘What do you mean?’ inquired Dad, skepticism in tow
With a hint of reluctance, his doubts began to show.
Undeterred by his skepticism and cynical facade
Mom continued, with a heart so warm and broad.
Envisioning a Christmas of a different hue
Embracing a spirit of love and virtue.
Rushing through the day, filling it to the brim
Leaving them to question, ‘Is it all just a whim?’
Proposing a shift in their magical intention
To master their attention, a conscious intervention.
Choosing to focus on love, beauty, and grace
Leading their lives with these values in place.
No longer seeking joy in compromise or despair
But in the beauty that surrounds them everywhere.
Their power lies not in the external facade
But in their ability to rise above the negative charade.
Choosing to cherish the sweet moments they find
Focusing on love and leaving fear behind.
Children not in need of gadgets or toys that clatter
But of parents present, in moments that matter.
Embracing love and kindness as their guiding light
Living the true essence of Christmas, day and night.
Being the embodiment of joy and love
Teaching their children the true essence thereof.
Realizing that the essence lies not in the end
But in the gift of love they forever extend.
Declaring with conviction and a silent dare
To commit to caring, to show they truly care.
Their children will notice, their hearts will feel light
As they embrace Christmas in its truest right.
‘Merry Christmas, My Love,’ Mom softly spoke
‘Let’s sit here, hand in hand, in this gentle yoke.’
Drifting off to sleep as the night grew deep
Dreaming sweet dreams, like children, in peaceful sleep.
Merry Christmas!
Dr. Randy Cale, a Clifton Park-based parenting expert, author, speaker, and licensed psychologist, provides practical advice on various parenting issues. For more information, visit his website www.TerrificParenting.com, offering free parenting guidance and newsletters. Explore past articles on The Saratogian, The Record, and The Community News websites. Send inquiries to [email protected].